wnq-writers:

“This year I learned that pain is inevitable. Loved ones will be lost whether it be death or simply growing apart. People will disappoint you and no matter how much you may love them, sometimes you need to walk away for yourself. It’s commendable to plan for the future and to visualize the things you want in life. Most likely none of it will happen and life will take you on a journey you never planned for. The number one lesson I have learned this year though is, No matter how unbearable the pain may be, love conquers everything and it can be found in the most unexpected places. We just have to be willing to invite it in and give it back. To cherish those who continue to love us even when we feel we don’t deserve it. That kind of love is hard to find and it will leave if it is not nourished, especially the love we need for ourselves.”

— dontbescaredjustbefree,  writing prompt #73: Write about the lessons you learned this year.

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naturaekos:

“But I believe in true love, you know? I don’t believe that everybody gets to keep their eyes or not get sick or whatever, but everybody should have true love, and it should last at least as long as your life does.”

— John Green, The Fault in Our Stars
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tokoshi:

me laying in bed on my phone, needing to pee for the past half hour with my phone on 2%

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anatomyandcappuccini:

13chancess:

push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise.

push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable.

get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else.

stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything.

buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice.

buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small.

strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full.

organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle.

have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck.

push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog.

message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through.

think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything.

become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends.

lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.

Have a good day !

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goodreadss:

“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.”

— Franz Kafka
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melanin-majestic:

treygotguap:

Girls will say they busy and be in their bed relaxin or sleep

Sounds busy to me

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fr3d-astaire:

honestly, i can’t wait to add to someone’s life, and make it better than it was. i don’t like the concept of, “making someone happy,” because it’s important to be independent of our partners, but i can’t wait to add to someone. i want 2am’s in our underwear, making grilled cheese in the kitchen. i want the moments where you’re pensively lost in thought, and i’m the lucky one who gets to catch a glimpse of the inner workings of your mind. but i also want the moments where we get lost because i took the wrong exit, and ended up with a flat tire, even though you told me that wasn’t the right exit. where you didn’t get the job you wanted, so you’re sulking in our bed. i want the moments together where what we wanted didn’t work out, because everyone is quick to acknowledge wanting good times with someone, but no one ever talks about working through the bad, and taking on the world together no matter what.

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thetrue-colors:

micspam:

best sleeping conditions: freezing fucking cold room but layers and layers of blankets 

and a warm someone next to you

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destinyhayden:

“Maybe you should stop overthinking so much and trust the way life happens. Things change. Every year you grow into someone else. Every year you have the opportunity to start over again and begin to rise and face the world the way that you want to. Take this with you, you’re beautiful human being…don’t be afraid to fail. Don’t be afraid to fall. Don’t be afraid to get your heart broken. Don’t be afraid at all. The fear is in your head. The doubt is in your heart. And regret survives in the memory - that is, if you feed it - if you give into it. So please, before you go…overthinking is a self-inflicting act. it is the suicide, the doubt of self, the tragedy no one understands, It is instant death without lifting a single sword. So don’t give in to it, you know you’re stronger than that and capable of so much more.”

— r. m. drake